Reclaim Your Name · Rising After Shame
EVERYONE ELSE MOVED ON.
YOU ARE STILL LIVING IN IT.
Seven weeks to put it down and take your name back.
Something happened, your name got attached to it, and the world went back to normal without you. You still show up. You still work. You just quietly stopped wanting things, stopped taking risks, and stopped letting anyone all the way in.
Some of us did something wrong. Some of us did not. Most are somewhere in between. Nobody here is asked to declare which one they are.
Seats are limited so the room stays small enough to be safe
Enroll NowWho This Is For
THE PEOPLE CARRYING IT ALONE
This program is for people whose name got attached to something they did not want it attached to.
You Might Recognize This
- Public shaming, whether online, in a workplace, in a congregation, or in a town where everyone knows
- Job loss or professional disgrace. Being fired, forced out, or quietly pushed aside
- A divorce or a public relationship ending, especially where a story was told about you that you could not control
- A legal matter, an accusation, a scandal, or a rumour that reshaped how people see you
- Any experience where your reputation was damaged and never fully repaired
What It Actually Looks Like
The people who need this are usually high functioning on the outside. They still show up. They still work. Nobody watching would say anything is wrong.
They have just quietly stopped wanting things. Stopped taking risks. Stopped letting anyone all the way in.
What they have in common is that they are carrying shame, they are carrying it mostly alone, and it is running their life.
The Core Premise
SHAME DOES NOT SURVIVE BEING WITNESSED
Shame is not just an emotion. It is an identity claim. It says this is who I am now, and once a person accepts that claim they stop building a life and start managing a reputation.
Reclaiming your name means the name belongs to you again. You decide what it stands for. You can say it out loud without flinching. You can be fully seen by another human being without collapsing. What you do with it after that, quietly or publicly, is yours.
The path there is honest disclosure inside a group of people doing the same thing at the same time. Shame cannot hold its shape under witness without judgment. That is the engine of the entire program, and it is why this is bold work rather than gentle work. You will be challenged here, and you will challenge yourself.
Because underneath the shame and the guilt and the years of careful management, there is still a person who was there before any of this happened. Getting your name back is how you get back to them.
Shame collapses desire. Everything here starts with getting it back.
Why This Works
YOU ALREADY UNDERSTAND YOUR SITUATION
Understanding it has never once moved it. Insight is not what shifts this, which is why you can know your pattern exactly and still run it for twenty years. What shifts it is being witnessed saying the thing out loud, and then doing that again the following week, and the week after, until it stops having the last word about who you are. Every week gives you one frame, one practice, and one list.
01
THE LESSON
You do not need another framework. You need the one idea that makes the next honest sentence possible to say. That is all a lesson is here. One idea, an example or two from our own lives, then we move.
02
THE GAMES
Reading about connection has never once made anyone feel less alone. On the call you practice it, in pairs and small groups, with people who are not going to flinch. This is where you get the felt experience of being seen without being judged, which is the thing you have been going without.
03
THE INVENTORY
The call opens you up. The other six days are where it lands. One list a week, read out loud to one person, and something you have carried privately for years stops being private. This is the part that changes your life, and it is the part nobody can do for you.
Week By Week
THE DESCENT AND THE RETURN
Week one opens the container and reconnects you to desire, because desire is the first thing shame takes. Weeks two through six clear the five bodies. Week seven returns you to yourself with everything cleared out of the way.
| 01 | INITIATIONWhat do you actually want?When a reputation gets damaged, people stop asking what they want and start asking what they can salvage. Week one reopens the question, and sets the agreements that hold the room. |
| 02 | RECLAIM YOUR SPIRITThe spiritual bodySurrender to a power at work in all things, in whatever language works for you. Total responsibility creates room for total power. We draw the line between responsibility and blame explicitly, more than once. |
| 03 | RECLAIM YOUR MINDThe mental bodyThe beliefs we hunt are the ones that formed or hardened at the moment of the shame event. I am someone who ruins things. People will always find out. Those became the operating instructions, and they have been running unexamined ever since. |
| 04 | RECLAIM YOUR EMOTIONSThe emotional bodyBeliefs are ideas welded to feelings that never got expressed. That is why insight alone changes nothing, and why a person can know exactly what their pattern is and still run it for twenty years. |
| 05 | RECLAIM YOUR BODYThe physical bodyEverything upstream eventually shows up as behaviour. That means facing what you use to avoid the deeper material, and it means the physical container itself. Sleep, food, movement, and the room you live in. |
| 06 | RECLAIM YOUR CONSCIOUSNESSThe ethereal bodyThis is the turn. Up to now the shame event has been something that happened to you. This is where it becomes something you get to author a meaning for. |
| 07 | COMING HOME TO YOUR SELFPurpose, vision, future selfSix weeks of excavation, and this one is the return. You are not walking away from who you were as a punishment. You are walking toward who you are becoming, and the shame event is now part of the material rather than the whole story. |
Weeks four, five and six are the bottom of the dive. Weeks one and seven are the surface on either side.
The Work Between Calls
SEVEN RECLAIM YOUR NAME PDF TEMPLATES
Write it. Read it out loud. That is the entire mechanism, and there is a reason it works. Kept inside your head, this has had years to grow into something shapeless that feels like who you are. On paper it becomes finite, and a finite thing can be put down. Said out loud to one person who does not flinch, it stops being a secret, and a secret is the only place shame can live.
Seven templates. Each one walks you into somewhere you have spent years going around.
What Your Seat Buys You
EVERY PART OF THIS EXISTS TO MAKE THE TRUTH EASIER TO SAY
Nothing here is padding. Each piece removes one more reason to keep it to yourself.
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SEVEN LIVE CALLS
You have been handling this by yourself, and by yourself is exactly the condition shame needs to survive. For seven weeks you are in a room with people who are not going to look away, led by someone who will not let you disappear into the back of it.
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SEVEN RECLAIM YOUR NAME PDF TEMPLATES
The hardest part of this work is starting the page. These take that decision away from you. You open one, and the questions do the pulling.
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SEVEN RECLAIM YOUR NAME WORKSHEETS
The inventories go deep, and a hard week can leave you raw with nowhere to put it. The worksheets are where what came up gets made sense of, so the week lands somewhere instead of just opening you up.
04
THE FIVE BODIES DIAGRAM
You are not a pile of unrelated problems. One page shows how the spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and ethereal bodies stack, so you can see where you are actually stuck instead of guessing at it for another five years.
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THREE MONTHS IN THE COMMUNITY
Seven weeks is enough to break the isolation. Three months is enough to build something in its place. You do not walk out of the last call and straight back into an empty room.
06
A PRACTICE PARTNER
Saying it out loud is the part that works, and it does not happen without someone on the other end. We can find you a partner inside The Community, or you can bring someone you already trust.
07 · ON THE $997 OPTION
TWO PRIVATE CONVERSATIONS WITH HARRY
Some of it is too big for a group call, or too specific to you, or you are simply not ready to say it in front of six people yet. That does not mean it should wait. Two hours of Harry, one to one, scheduled whenever across the seven weeks you need them most.
Included Bonus
THREE MONTHS IN THE COMMUNITY
Seven weeks is enough to break the isolation. It is not enough to replace it. Every seat comes with three months of full access to The Community, including the app, so the room does not disappear the week the program ends.
- Weekly live connection calls with members around the world
- A place to find a partner to read your inventories to
- The training log and practice tracker in the app
- Members only events, online and in person
A $99 value, included at no extra cost with either option.
Who Is Holding The Room
BUILT BY BOTH OF US. LED BY HARRY.
Harry Judge leads every call. Neither of us is asking you to go anywhere we have not already been ourselves, which is the only credential that matters in a room like this one.
HARRY JUDGE
Co-Creator · Leads Every Call
After twenty years as a professional actor and educator, Harry trained in breathwork and somatics, shamanism and embodiment, conscious relating and sacred sexuality. He works through the irreplaceable medicine of connection.
He has spent a career reading rooms for a living, which is most of what this work asks for. He will notice the moment you go quiet, and he will not let you disappear into it.
RICKY GOODALL
Founder, CEO & Master Facilitator
Before founding Conscious Intimacy Games, Ricky Goodall competed professionally in MMA across Canada, building his life around fighting, discipline and survival. After years in the fight world a major personal transformation led him toward healing, emotional honesty and authentic connection.
He built his own recovery on exactly the practice this program is made of: writing the truth down and reading it out loud to another human being. He created this program with Harry.
Conscious Intimacy Games has been running live events since 2022, across 14 cities in 4 countries. Technique alone does not create a room where people tell the truth. How settled the person leading it is sets what is possible inside it.
Choose Your Seat
TWO WAYS TO DO THIS
Same seven weeks, same calls, same materials. The only difference is whether you also want private time with one of us.
Only a small number of seats on the private support option, because there are only two of us. If cost is the thing standing in the way, write to us before you decide against it.
THIS WILL ASK SOMETHING OF YOU
Seven weeks of being honest in front of people is not a small thing to sign up for, and it should not be sold as one. We would rather you sit this round out than arrive somewhere you are not ready to be met.
Take A Seat If
- Something happened, and you have quietly built your whole life around it ever since
- You look fine from the outside and carry all of it on the inside
- You want your name back, whatever that turns out to mean for you, privately or publicly
- You are willing to be challenged, and to challenge yourself, in front of people who will not flinch
- You suspect there is a version of you underneath all this you have not met in years
Wait For Another Round If
- You want an audience for your side of the story more than a room to be honest in
- You are looking for someone to hand down a verdict on whether you were right
- You are in acute crisis right now and need clinical care before anything else
- You want to watch from the edge with your camera off and your mouth shut
- You could not promise to keep what you hear from other people inside the room
THE PRACTICAL QUESTIONS
Confidentiality is the first thing we establish, before anyone shares anything. Every person in the group agrees to it out loud in week one. What is said in the room stays in the room, permanently.
Your written inventories are never collected, submitted, uploaded or read by us. Nothing you write is seen by anyone except the one person you choose to read it to. There is no file with your name on it anywhere.
Yes. Each call is recorded and the replay goes to the people in your cohort, so missing one does not mean losing the week.
Two things worth knowing. The recording is never published, sold, or shared with anyone outside the group. And you are never trapped on it: if there is something you would rather not have captured, say so, keep your camera off for that part, or take it to your practice partner instead. Nobody will ask you why.
You are never required to. Nobody is asked to declare what they did or what was done to them, and you control what you share and when.
That said, there will be moments where you get the chance to be witnessed by the whole group, and for many people that turns out to be the most important thing that happens in the seven weeks. The invitation is always there. Taking it is always yours.
One live call a week for seven weeks, 90 minutes each, on Zoom. The day and time for your cohort are confirmed by email as soon as you enrol.
The replay covers you. We still ask you to come to every call you can, because the room builds trust over seven weeks and a replay is not the same as being in it. If you already know you will miss more than one, write to us before you enrol and we will help you decide between this cohort and the next.
The inventory takes 30 to 45 minutes in one sitting, plus the time it takes to read it out loud to your partner. Call it three hours a week in total, honestly done.
No. We can pair you with someone inside The Community who is doing the same work at the same time. If you would rather read your lists to someone you already trust, bring them. Either way you will have a partner before the first inventory is due.
Zoom, a private room where you will not be overheard, headphones, and something to write on. Camera on is the expectation, because being seen is the whole point, though you are never held to it in a moment where you need it off.
None. Most people arrive having never done anything like it. Every practice comes with clear instructions and is demonstrated first, and nobody is put on the spot. If you can write a list and read it to one person, you can do this.
The program is identical. The $997 option adds two private one to one conversations with Harry, scheduled whenever you need them across the seven weeks, for the material that is too big or too specific for a group call.
YOU HAVE CARRIED IT ALONE LONG ENOUGH
You do not have to keep organizing your whole life around one thing that happened. Seven weeks, seven calls, and a room full of people doing exactly the same thing at exactly the same time.
Shame cannot hold its shape under witness without judgment. Come find out.
$297, or $997 with private support
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