Conscious Intimacy Basic Training ยท Tulum, Mexico ยท October 23 to 25, 2026
Become Someone Who Can Handle Relationships Without Abandoning Yourself or the Other Person
You know your patterns. You can name the wound. You know your attachment style, and you've spent countless hours working on your "parts." Then someone says something that triggers you and it all goes out the window.
Join us at the Conscious Intimacy Basic Training for three days in Tulum where we train you to stay with the discomfort and hold the tension so you can find the depth and connection you desire most.
Stay true to yourself. Stay open to others.
Only 20 spaces
$297 USD
Training only. Flights and accommodation are not included.
Or $697 with a room at the villas. There are two left.
Claim One of the 20 SpacesYOU CAN'T THINK YOUR WAY INTO BETTER RELATIONSHIPS.
Someone you care about says something. Maybe it's a tone. Maybe it's a text that took four hours to arrive and says "k."
Your chest goes tight, your heart beat quickens and you're off to the races.
You lash out. You defend yourself. You explain, at length, how they wronged you. Or you go cold and polite. Or you agree with everything so it'll stop. Or you write the long text, the one with multiple paragraphs, and you send it.
Then comes the distance. A day of silence. A week. Sometimes you even unfollow them or block them so you don't have to see their posts.
Then you do whatever takes the edge off. Work. Your phone. A drink. Food. Someone new who doesn't know you well enough to hurt you yet.
And then your body settles, and you can see the whole thing. You can see where you stopped listening. You can see the old wound it hit. You could draw a diagram of it. You tell yourself that next time you'll catch it.
Next time arrives. You don't catch it again.
If that's familiar, you've probably asked yourself some version of this:
"I know this stuff. Why the fuck am I still losing my shit when it matters most?"
YOU DON'T NEED ANOTHER INSIGHT.
Therapy helped you understand it. The medicine helped you see it. The retreats showed you what's possible between people. The books gave you words for things you'd felt your whole life. Somatic work got you back into your body.
All of that was real, and none of it was wasted.
But knowing how you want to relate and being able to relate that way while your heart is pounding are two different skills. One is a theory that lives in your head, the other is a skillset you can embody when it matters most.
You can't think your way into that. You get it by doing it, with real people, over and over again until it becomes muscle memory.
It's one thing to "know" what to do, and it's another thing to actually do it.
From people who've been in the room
WHAT THEY SAID AFTERWARD
★★★★★
This experience felt extremely helpful to my current situation. Ricky has a beautiful gift to communicate with such clarity and high level of consciousness. I was able to navigate through something with his guidance and support. The dynamic of being visible within a group setting also brought an element of connection, vulnerability and accountability to my personal experience. It felt like a safe space to open up, be seen, and take a risk in my share with the group.
Sophie
★★★★★
I stumbled in a Conscious Intimacy Games event by chance and had a super powerful first experience so I keep coming back to it! I felt that my soul was touched and learned a lot about relating and effective communication even from just two hours, and I really appreciated the leader's modeling of the whole framework for us through the various exercises and through how the evening evolved.
Elena Mustatea
★★★★★
Skillful and safe facilitation with potentially life-changing unlocks.
Ricky is a skillful and compassionate guide with careful attention to detail and nuance in sharing these potent and potentially life-changing intimacy practices. Highly recommended.
Ryan Schwartz
Hundreds of circles · Held across 14 cities · Five stars from every review
HOW THE THREE DAYS RUN
We open with honest words and deepen through conscious touch. Every practice runs inside clear boundaries and consent.
Friday, 6:00 to 9:00 PM
DAY ONE: INITIATION
We start at the deep end. The first practices ask you to lead with the thing you'd normally hide, because a room changes the moment somebody goes first and nothing bad happens to them. Then come the first layers of touch.
Three hours in, the room is no longer full of strangers.
Saturday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY TWO: DANCING WITH THE DARKNESS
We go into the character you built to survive. What you do when you want something. What you do when you have to refuse someone. What you do with the resentment you've been carrying quietly. Then we go back to touch and take it further.
This is usually the hardest day, and the one people point back to afterward.
Sunday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY THREE: LEADING WITH THE LIGHT
We build the new pattern. You learn the anchor skill of the whole practice, which is how to hear another person all the way to the bottom and let them know they landed. We close with the group turning its full attention on one person at a time.
It's the practice people talk about longest afterward.
All touch is clothed and consensual, sensual rather than sexual, and every practice runs inside The Three Boundaries: time, talk, and touch. You choose your yes and your no in every single moment, no explanation is ever required, and you set the depth of every practice you take part in.
Three Bonuses, Included
AND THEN THERE ARE THE EVENINGS
The training itself runs Friday evening through Sunday afternoon. These three sit on top of it, at no extra cost, and they're yours whether or not you come to all of them.
Friday
SHAMANIC BREATHWORK CEREMONY
A guided breathwork ceremony on the first night of the weekend.
Saturday, 7:00 to 10:00 PM
LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF VOICE MEDICINE CIRCLE
Three hours of sound, song, and prayer with Star-I-Am. No singing experience is required.
Saturday and Sunday mornings
MORNING MOVEMENT
An hour of movement to start each day before the training begins. It's optional, and it's a good way to be in your body before the room opens.
Where are you in this?
THE JOURNEY FROM "NO ONE GETS ME" TO "I'M SURROUNDED BY SOUL FAMILY."
Most people never get past #3.
One
SELF-ABANDONMENT
"I'll betray myself so you won't leave."
Two
REBELLION
"Fuck that. I'm never abandoning myself again."
Three
POLARIZATION
"I'm just being honest and you can't handle it."
Four
THE MIRROR
"Wait. What's mine here?"
Five
SURRENDER
You stop needing to be right and instead just want to be happy.
Six
RESPONSIBILITY
You can own your behavior and your impact without sliding into shame.
Seven
REPAIR
You listen until they feel understood.
Eight
SECURE INTIMACY
"I can stay in relationship without losing myself."
Conscious Intimacy Basic Training is three days of practicing stages four through seven with other people, face to face, in real time.
Claim One of the 20 SpacesYou start now, and you keep going after
THE RETREAT ISN'T THE PRODUCT. THE NEW NORMAL IS.
You may know the retreat cycle already:
On the last day of the retreat: "Holy shit, that changed my life."
Three weeks after the retreat is over: "Why am I doing the exact same thing again?"
A weekend can interrupt a pattern. It can't create a new normal.
That takes repetition with people who are living the same lifestyle, which is why you get three months in The Community as part of your ticket.
Live calls every week
- Every Monday, 6:00 to 7:30 PM Eastern. Guided talk-based practice with real people, live.
- Every second Friday, 12:00 to 1:00 PM Eastern.
And it comes with
- The Community app, on your phone, wherever you are
- The AI Master Healer, trained in high performance coaching, Internal Family Systems, somatic experiencing and conscious communication. Process a trigger in real time instead of waiting a week.
- The digital Conscious Intimacy Games card deck
- A new practice partner every month, so the work has somewhere to live between calls
- The five week CIBT Self-Study Program so you can keep learning and practicing.
You get in the day you enroll. Enroll today and you can be on a live call this Monday. By the time you land in Tulum you'll already know faces in the room.
Your three months doesn't start counting until you leave Tulum. Everything between now and October is on us.
Claim One of the 20 Spaces
Six months from now
WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE ON AN ORDINARY DAY
These are the things people practice here. None of them is a guarantee. All of them are learnable.
WITH YOUR PARTNER
You disagree about money, or the dishes, or whose turn it was. Your voice gets tight. You notice it, call it out, and the two of you move through it with ease.
WITH A FRIEND
She tells you she's been angry with you for a month. You ask questions and listen deeply instead of getting triggered and taking it personally.
WITH A NO
Someone asks for something you don't want to give. You say no, kindly, once, without a three-paragraph apology.
WITH REPAIR
A day after the fight, you're the one who goes back and says, "Here's my part and what I'd like to take responsibility for" without an expectation for the other person to change.
The Venue
PEACE & LOVE VILLAS
A private ten bedroom estate in the Tulum jungle, and our home for the three days. Two villas joined into one house, behind a gate, with nothing around it but trees.
TWO HOUSES, ONE ROOF
Two villas sit side by side and join into a single estate, with a handmade driftwood bridge threading the two rooftops together above the canopy.
The house sleeps twenty. The training is capped at twenty. We planned it that way.
- Ten en-suite bedrooms across the two villas
- Two private pools and walled garden courtyards
- A private gated community with round the clock security
- Solar powered, with step-free ground floor suites
- Forty five minutes from Cancún International Airport
Staying on site
THERE ARE TWO ROOMS LEFT
The estate has ten en-suite rooms and most are held for the team. Two are still open to people enrolled in the training. You sleep in the house where the work happens, and you never have to leave and come back.
Two rooms left, and we can't add more.
Included in the $697 ticket. If you'd rather find your own place, the venue is in Tulum and we'll point you toward options nearby.
WHO IS HOLDING THE ROOM
We can only ask you to stay in a hard moment if we can stay in it ourselves. These are the people who will.
RICKY GOODALL
Founder · Master Facilitator
Before founding Conscious Intimacy Games, Ricky Goodall competed professionally in MMA across Canada, building his life around fighting, discipline and survival. After years in the fight world a major personal transformation led him toward healing, emotional honesty and authentic connection. Today he helps people move beyond emotional armor into deeper, more meaningful relationships.
DAVID DIAMOND
Licensed Facilitator
A coach who draws on decades as a martial artist, kung fu instructor, personal trainer, massage therapist and somatic counselor.
ERIN DOUMERT
Student Facilitator
A medicine woman, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and coach guiding clients since 2019.
JAY GERRING
Student Facilitator
After decades in tech, a Wheel of Consent workshop in 2020 changed his direction, and he has been designing and facilitating that work ever since.
HARRY JUDGE
Student Facilitator
After twenty years as a professional actor and educator, Harry trained in breathwork and somatics, shamanism and embodiment, conscious relating and sacred sexuality.
Conscious Intimacy Games has been running live events since 2022, across 14 cities in 4 countries. Between them, this team has held hundreds of rooms like this one.
Student facilitators are training toward full certification and co-facilitate under the supervision of a Licensed Facilitator.
CHOOSE YOUR WAY IN
Both include all three days of the training, the five week Self-Study Program, three months in The Community, and all three bonuses. The difference is where you sleep.
Twenty spaces · Only two rooms left
What you are actually getting
| Three days live in Tulum | $297 |
| The five week Self-Study Program | $297 |
| Three months in The Community | $99 |
| Shamanic Breathwork Ceremony | $99 |
| Voice Medicine Circle | $33 |
| Total value | $825 |
| Your price today | $297 |
Pay $297 today and you save $528.
What happens the moment you enroll: you get a receipt, immediate access to The Community, and your five week Self-Study Program. Venue details follow by email so you can book travel.
Questions before you book? Write to hello@consciousintimacygames.com
LET'S BE HONEST ABOUT THE FIT
There are twenty spaces, and this training asks something of you. It asks you to look at your own part, including the parts you'd rather not see.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
- You've done years of work and you still watch yourself do the old thing when it counts.
- You've swung from people-pleasing to walls, and neither one got you the closeness you wanted.
- You're willing to ask "what's mine here?" even when you're sure it's mostly theirs.
- You'd rather find out you were wrong than keep being right and alone.
- You want to practice with real people instead of collecting more notes.
- You coach, teach, or lead groups, and you know you can only take people as far as you've gone yourself.
THIS PROBABLY ISN'T YOUR WEEKEND IF
- You're hoping the people in your life will change so you can finally feel okay.
- You believe that if you're triggered, someone must have done something wrong.
- You want the facilitators to agree with every read you have of a situation.
- You don't want to look at your own projection, your behavior, or your impact on other people.
- You want to sit back and take notes rather than do the work.
Every one of us has stood in the right-hand column, and most of us still visit. All we're asking is that you come willing to look. Sometimes you'll find you were wrong about something. So do we, regularly.
THE QUESTIONS EVERYBODY ASKS
Including the ones people usually only ask us privately.
I've already done so much work. Is this just more of the same?
What if I get too triggered, or I freeze?
I'm afraid to be fully seen.
I'm not in a relationship. Is this still for me?
Conflict isn't really my problem. I just don't have any.
I've been genuinely harmed by people. Are you going to tell me that was my fault?
What if I need boundaries more than I need repair?
Is this a sexual event?
I'm in a relationship. Is this going to blow it up?
What's your refund policy?
Money's tight, or I have a question that isn't here.
You can keep abandoning yourself when it matters most.
You can keep settling for connections that don't fulfill you.
Or you can spend three days in Tulum learning another way, with twenty people who came for the same reason.
$297
Or $697 with a room in the house, and there are two left.
Tulum, Mexico · October 23 to 25, 2026
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