Conscious Intimacy Games Presents
CONSCIOUS INTIMACY
BASIC TRAINING
TULUM, MEXICO
October 23 to 25, 2026
Three Days to Take Off the Mask and Master the Art of Being Yourself
How to say the hard thing instead of swallowing it. How to stay in the room when someone is upset with you. How to be close to someone without managing them. Three days of practicing all of it, with twenty people who came to do the same.
Only 20 spaces
Early bird $297 · $397 from October 1
Training only. Flights and accommodation are not included.
Or $697 with a room at the villas. There are three left.
Claim One of the 20 SpacesHOW MANY THINGS HAVE YOU NOT SAID THIS YEAR?
Something bothered you and you said it was fine.
Someone crossed a line and you let it go.
You wanted something and you didn't ask for it.
Someone got upset with you and you shut down, or gave in, or went quiet until it passed.
You did the same thing last year.
Sometimes it stays quiet and the distance just grows. Sometimes it builds until it comes out sideways, in a fight that was never really about what you were fighting about. Either way, you didn't choose it. It happened to you.
You're not bad at this. You were never trained in it, and then you were expected to be good at it anyway.
There was never a class on how to tell someone the truth to their face and stay in the room while they react to it. You were supposed to work that out on your marriage, your kids, your closest friend. The people you could least afford to get it wrong with.
Which is why more books haven't fixed it. Books give you understanding. This takes practice, and you can't practice on the conversation that actually matters.
That's what these three days are. Twenty people you don't know, and practice after practice at saying the hard thing out loud, until you can do it at home.
Nothing is ever asked of you that hasn't first been taught, demonstrated, and practiced in pairs. You set your own limit every single time. Nobody gets handed something cold and told to perform it.
From the tribe
PEOPLE DO NOT LEAVE FEELING ENTERTAINED
They leave feeling more human.
★★★★★
This experience felt extremely helpful to my current situation. Ricky has a beautiful gift to communicate with such clarity and high level of consciousness. I was able to navigate through something with his guidance and support. The dynamic of being visible within a group setting also brought an element of connection, vulnerability and accountability to my personal experience. It felt like a safe space to open up, be seen, and take a risk in my share with the group.
Sophie
★★★★★
I stumbled in a Conscious Intimacy Games event by chance and had a super powerful first experience so I keep coming back to it! I felt that my soul was touched and learned a lot about relating and effective communication even from just two hours, and I really appreciated the leader's modeling of the whole framework for us through the various exercises and through how the evening evolved.
Elena Mustatea
★★★★★
Skillful and safe facilitation with potentially life-changing unlocks.
Ricky is a skillful and compassionate guide with careful attention to detail and nuance in sharing these potent and potentially life-changing intimacy practices. Highly recommended.
Ryan Schwartz
Hundreds of circles · Held across 14 cities · Five stars from every review
WHAT YOU LEAVE WITH
You won't be a different person on Monday. You'll be someone who has already done these things once, in front of witnesses, which is the part that was missing.
EVIDENCE, NOT REASSURANCE
You say a true thing you've never said out loud, to a face, in a lit room. Then you find out what actually happens, instead of what you've been imagining for years. That's not something a book can hand you.
A BODY THAT STOPS BRACING
Clothed, consensual touch with real attention behind it. For a lot of people it's the first time in years that being close to someone didn't also mean managing them, and that lands in a way talking about it doesn't.
THE ACTUAL SKILLS
How to say the hard thing. How to stay in a conversation when someone's upset with you. How to ask for what you want, how to refuse someone and stay close anyway, and how to listen without defending yourself. You'll have done each of these in front of people, which is a different thing from agreeing with them.
THREE DAYS, THREE DOORS
We move through the darkness to get to the light, opening with honest words and then deepening through conscious touch. Every practice runs inside clear boundaries and consent.
Friday, 6:00 to 9:00 PM
DAY ONE: INITIATION
We start at the deep end. The first practices ask you to lead with the thing you'd normally hide, because a room changes the moment somebody goes first and nothing bad happens to them. Then come the first layers of touch.
Three hours in, the room is no longer full of strangers.
Saturday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY TWO: DANCING WITH THE DARKNESS
We go into the character you built to survive. What you do when you want something. What you do when you have to refuse someone. What you do with the resentment you've been carrying quietly. Then we go back to touch and take it further.
This is usually the hardest day, and the one people point back to afterward.
Sunday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY THREE: LEADING WITH THE LIGHT
We build the new pattern. You learn the anchor skill of the whole practice, which is how to hear another person all the way to the bottom and let them know they landed. We close with the group turning its full attention on one person at a time.
It's the practice people talk about longest afterward.
THE THREE TOOLSETS
Everything we teach sits in one of these three. Here's what each one is, and what you walk away with.
THE GATEKEEPER GAMES
These are the practices where you say the thing you'd normally keep back, out loud, to one other person sitting in front of you. You choose how far you go every single time.
What you take away: you stop needing people to have the wrong idea about you. Being honest costs you less, so you do it more, and the version of you your family and friends know starts matching the one you actually are.
We open the weekend here because a room changes the moment somebody says a real thing and nothing bad happens to them.
THE SEVEN FUNDAMENTALS
These are the conversation skills, taught one at a time and then practiced in pairs until they're yours. How to ask for what you want. How to say no. How to hear someone out without defending yourself. How to tell what actually happened apart from the story you built on top of it.
What you take away: the arguments get shorter. You can disagree with someone without it becoming a threat, ask for things without apologising, and say no to people without losing them. It works on your partner, your mother, and your business partner.
THE FIVE FORMS
Clothed, consensual touch. Sensual rather than sexual. Sensual means the senses are involved: eye contact, being held, hugging, hands and shoulders, breath. Nothing sexual happens at any point, and you can stop any practice without explaining yourself.
What you take away: you can understand that you're safe with someone and still not feel it. This is where your body learns the difference. People come out of it able to be close to someone without bracing, performing, or quietly managing them.
Most talk-based work doesn't go here, and most touch-based work doesn't teach the talking. We do both on purpose.
All touch is clothed and consensual, sensual rather than sexual, and every practice runs inside The Three Boundaries: time, talk, and touch. You choose your yes and your no in every single moment, no explanation is ever required, and you set the depth of every practice you take part in.
Three Bonuses, Included
AND THEN THERE ARE THE EVENINGS
The training itself runs Friday evening through Sunday afternoon. These three sit on top of it, at no extra cost, and they're yours whether or not you come to all of them.
Saturday, 7:00 to 10:00 PM
LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF VOICE MEDICINE CIRCLE
Three hours of sound, song, and prayer with Star-I-Am. No singing experience is required.
Sunday, 7:00 to 9:00 PM
CACAO CEREMONY AND ECSTATIC DANCE
Cacao, music, and free movement to close the weekend, so that what opened over three days has somewhere to land. No choreography and nobody watching.
Saturday and Sunday mornings
MORNING MOVEMENT
An hour of movement to start each day before the training begins. It's optional, and it's a good way to be in your body before the room opens.
You start now, not in October
YOU GET IN THE DAY YOU ENROLL
You get access to The Community the moment you check out. Enroll today and you can be on a live call this Monday.
And your three months doesn't start counting until you leave Tulum. Everything between now and October is on us.
Live calls every week
- Every Monday, 6:00 to 7:30 PM Eastern. Guided talk-based practice with real people, live.
- Every second Friday, 12:00 to 1:00 PM Eastern.
By the time October comes you'll already know faces in that room, and you'll have run the practices before you ever get on a plane.
And it comes with
- The Community app, on your phone, wherever you are
- The AI Master Healer, trained in high performance coaching, Internal Family Systems, somatic experiencing and conscious communication. Process a trigger at 2am instead of waiting a week.
- The digital Conscious Intimacy Games card deck
- A new practice partner every month, so the work has somewhere to live between calls
Here's the honest problem with weekends like this one. For a lot of people the charge fades inside a week, and then you're back in the same conversations with the same people. Skills fade without use.
So you also get the five week Self-Study Program, and the calls keep running for three full months after you fly home.
The point is that you're still practicing this in January.
Claim One of the 20 Spaces
WHY TULUM
Leaving the country isn't a gimmick, and it isn't about the scenery.
It takes away the people who already know your usual character, the meetings you could be checking, and the option of driving home the moment it gets uncomfortable. That last one matters more than it sounds.
A lot of the value here is in the hour you'd ordinarily have left.
What replaces it is three days inside a conscious community. Jungle, heat, and the same twenty people from Friday evening to Sunday night, every one of them there for the reason you are. The meals and the hours between sessions are part of the training, not a break from it.
You're also held by a team rather than by one person. A full team of facilitators in the room means more eyes on it, more support, and somebody free to sit with you the moment you need it.
The Venue
PEACE & LOVE VILLAS
A private ten bedroom estate in the Tulum jungle, and our home for the three days. Two villas joined into one house, behind a gate, with nothing around it but trees.
TWO HOUSES, ONE ROOF
Two villas sit side by side and join into a single estate, with a handmade driftwood bridge threading the two rooftops together above the canopy.
The house sleeps twenty. The training is capped at twenty. That is not a coincidence.
- Ten en-suite bedrooms across the two villas
- Two private pools and walled garden courtyards
- A private gated community with round the clock security
- Solar powered, with step-free ground floor suites
- Forty five minutes from CancĂșn International Airport
THE ROOFTOP DECK
A teak deck with room for twenty mats under open sky. This is where morning movement happens on Saturday and Sunday.
CEDAR BARREL SAUNA
On the rooftop terrace, facing the canopy. Steam at golden hour, then cool jungle air and open sky.
THE KITCHEN
A green marble island opening onto the lounge. Coffee at dawn is where a lot of the real conversation happens.
A TABLE FOR EVERYONE
One long table under arched windows, with room for all twenty of us to eat together.
ROOM TO COME TOGETHER, AND ROOM TO STEP AWAY
A deep U-shaped sofa the whole group can sink into. A long table for dinner. Two pools, garden courtyards, shaded terraces with hammocks.
It matters more than it sounds. After you've said something you've never said out loud, you need somewhere to sit with it, and somewhere to be quiet on your own for twenty minutes before you come back.
This house has both.
Staying on site
THERE ARE THREE ROOMS LEFT
The estate has ten en-suite rooms and most are held for the team. Three are open to people enrolled in the training. You sleep in the house where the work happens, and you never have to leave and come back.
Three rooms left, and we can't add more.
Included in the $697 ticket. If you'd rather find your own place, the venue is in Tulum and we'll point you toward options nearby.
WHO IS HOLDING THE ROOM
Our facilitators lead by embodiment first. The room follows their presence.
RICKY GOODALL
Founder · Master Facilitator
Before founding Conscious Intimacy Games, Ricky Goodall competed professionally in MMA across Canada, building his life around fighting, discipline and survival. After years in the fight world a major personal transformation led him toward healing, emotional honesty and authentic connection. Today he helps people move beyond emotional armor into deeper, more meaningful relationships.
DAVID DIAMOND
Licensed Facilitator
A coach for people who know there is more available in life and want grounded, practical ways to access it. He draws on decades as a martial artist, kung fu instructor, personal trainer, massage therapist and somatic counselor.
ERIN DOUMERT
Student Facilitator
A medicine woman, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and coach guiding clients since 2019. She uses parts work, inner child work and somatic shadow work to reach the beliefs running underneath your goals, so you stop repeating the same pattern year after year.
JAY GERRING
Student Facilitator
Decades in tech, then his own company, then mentoring thousands of others to do the same. A Wheel of Consent workshop in 2020 changed his direction, and he has been designing and facilitating that work ever since, out of Austin, Texas.
HARRY JUDGE
Student Facilitator
After twenty years as a professional actor and educator, Harry trained in breathwork and somatics, shamanism and embodiment, conscious relating and sacred sexuality. He works through the irreplaceable medicine of connection.
Conscious Intimacy Games has been running live events since 2022, across 14 cities in 4 countries. Between them, this team has held hundreds of rooms like this one.
Technique alone doesn't create a room where people tell the truth. How settled the facilitators are sets what's possible in it. Our job is to hold that steadily enough that you can borrow it until you can do it on your own.
Student facilitators are training toward full certification and co-facilitate under the supervision of a Licensed Facilitator.
CHOOSE YOUR WAY IN
Both include all three days of the training, the five week Self-Study Program, three months in The Community, and all three bonuses. The difference is where you sleep.
Flights are never included. On the $297 ticket, accommodation isn't either.
EARLY BIRD: $297 UNTIL SEPTEMBER 30
ON OCTOBER 1 THE PRICE GOES TO $397
Twenty spaces · Only three rooms left
What you are actually getting
| Three days live in Tulum | $397 |
| The five week Self-Study Program | $297 |
| Three months in The Community | $99 |
| Voice Medicine Circle | $33 |
| Cacao Ceremony and Ecstatic Dance | $33 |
| Total value | $859 |
| Your price today | $297 |
Pay $297 today and you save $562.
Wait until October 1 and the price is $397.
The $297 early bird price runs until September 30. On October 1 the training goes to $397.
On the $297 ticket, travel and accommodation aren't included. Once you enroll we send the venue details and suggestions on where to stay nearby.
On the $697 ticket your room is included. Flights and airport transfers aren't.
What happens the moment you enroll: you get a receipt, immediate access to The Community, and your five week Self-Study Program. Venue details follow by email so you can book travel.
Questions before you book? Write to hello@consciousintimacygames.com
LET'S BE HONEST ABOUT THE FIT
There are twenty spaces. We'd rather they went to the right twenty people, so here is the honest version.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
- There's a conversation you've been withholding for months and it's eating you up inside.
- You go quiet in conflict, or you go sharp, and you don't like either version of yourself afterward.
- You say yes when you mean no, and then resent the other person for asking.
- People find you easy to talk to, but no one knows the real you.
- A hug goes on a second longer than you expected and you don't know what to do with yourself.
- You coach, teach, or lead groups, and you know you can only take people as far as you've gone yourself.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF
- You want to sit back and take notes rather than do the deep work.
- You want to escape for three days and go home as the same person.
- You want more tools so you can prove how right you are in your relationships.
- You're looking for a laid back, easy training where nothing actually changes.
- You're looking for a community of people who are going to let you play small and make excuses for yourself.
THE QUESTIONS EVERYBODY ASKS
Including the ones people usually only ask us privately.
I'm not sure I'm ready for this.
Is this a sexual event?
What happens if I freeze, or I want to stop?
I'm in a relationship. Is this going to blow it up?
Do I need to bring a partner?
How many people will be there?
What's actually included in the price?
When does the early bird price end?
What's your refund policy?
Where is it, and where do I stay?
Money's tight, or I have a question that isn't here.
THAT'S THE TRAINING
Three days in Tulum, twenty people, and a room built for practicing the things most of us were never taught.
If it's a yes, we'd love to have you there.
If you're not sure, write to us and ask. hello@consciousintimacygames.com
Everything is included: the Voice Medicine Circle on Saturday evening, the Cacao Ceremony and Ecstatic Dance on Sunday evening, and movement on both mornings.
Early bird $297 until September 30 · $397 from October 1
Or $697 with a room in the house, and there are three left.
Tulum, Mexico · October 23 to 25, 2026
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