Conscious Intimacy Games Presents
CONSCIOUS INTIMACY
BASIC TRAINING
TULUM, MEXICO
October 23 to 25, 2026
Three Days to Take Off the Mask and Master the Art of Being Yourself
How to say the hard thing instead of swallowing it. How to stay in the room when someone is upset with you. How to be close to someone without managing them. Three days of practicing all of it, with twenty people who came to do the same.
THE CONVERSATION YOU KEEP NOT HAVING
There is something you have been meaning to say to someone. You know roughly how it starts, you have run it a few times in the car, and every time the moment actually arrives you tell them everything is fine instead.
That happens to almost everyone, and it almost never causes a crisis. Nobody leaves over one swallowed sentence. It simply settles, and over enough years it turns into a quiet distance between you and the people you are closest to, the kind you can live with for a very long time without ever naming it.
The good news is that this is not who you are. It is what you were taught to do.
Saying the hard thing, staying steady when someone is upset with you, and being close to a person without managing them are all skills, and skills can be trained. What they need is practice, which means doing them clumsily at first, somewhere it is safe to be clumsy.
That is the one thing everyday life cannot give you. The stakes are always real, the person in front of you is someone you cannot afford to lose, and you never get a second attempt at the same moment.
So we built a room where you do get one. Three days, twenty people, and every practice designed so you can say the thing you have never said and find out what actually happens.
WHAT YOU LEAVE WITH
You will not be a different person on Monday. You will be someone who has already done these things once, in front of witnesses, which is the part that was missing.
EVIDENCE, NOT REASSURANCE
You say a true thing you have never said out loud, to a face, in a lit room, and then you find out what actually happens. It is almost never the thing you predicted. There is no way to get that from a book, because the whole point is that you were wrong about the outcome.
A BODY THAT STOPS BRACING
Clothed, consensual touch with real attention behind it. For a lot of people it is the first time in years that being close to someone did not also mean managing them, and that lands in a way that talking about it does not.
THE ACTUAL SKILLS
How to say the hard thing. How to stay in a conversation when someone is upset with you. How to ask for what you want, how to refuse someone and stay close anyway, and how to listen without defending yourself. You will have done each of these in front of people, which is a different thing from agreeing with them.
WHY TULUM
Leaving the country is not a gimmick, and it is not about the scenery.
It removes the people who already know your usual character, the meetings you could be checking, and the option of driving home the moment it gets uncomfortable. That last one matters more than it sounds.
A lot of the value here is in the hour you would ordinarily have left.
What replaces it is three days inside a conscious community. Jungle, heat, and the same twenty people from Friday evening to Sunday night, every one of them there for the reason you are. The meals and the hours between sessions are part of the training, not a break from it.
You are also held by a team rather than by one person. A full team of facilitators in the room means more eyes on it, more support, and somebody free to sit with you the moment you need it.
THREE DAYS, THREE DOORS
We move through the darkness to get to the light, opening with honest words and then deepening through conscious touch. Every practice runs inside clear boundaries and consent.
Friday, 6:00 to 9:00 PM
DAY ONE: INITIATION
We start at the deep end. The first practices ask you to lead with the thing you would normally hide, because a room changes the moment somebody goes first and nothing bad happens to them. Then come the first layers of touch.
Three hours in, the room is no longer full of strangers.
Saturday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY TWO: DANCING WITH THE DARKNESS
We go into the character you built to survive. What you do when you want something. What you do when you have to refuse someone. What you do with the resentment you have been carrying quietly. Then we return to touch and go deeper into it.
This is usually the hardest day, and the one people point back to afterward.
Sunday, 12:00 to 6:00 PM
DAY THREE: LEADING WITH THE LIGHT
We build the new pattern. You learn the anchor skill of the whole practice, which is how to hear another person all the way to the bottom and let them know they landed. We close with the group turning its full attention on one person at a time.
It is the practice people talk about longest afterward.
Three Bonuses, Included
AND THEN THERE ARE THE EVENINGS
The training itself runs Friday evening through Sunday afternoon. These three sit on top of it, at no additional cost, and they are yours whether or not you come to all of them.
Saturday, 7:00 to 10:00 PM
LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF VOICE MEDICINE CIRCLE
Three hours of sound, song, and prayer with Star-I-Am. No singing experience is required.
Sunday, 7:00 to 9:00 PM
SHAMANIC BREATHWORK CEREMONY
Two hours of breath, rhythm, and release to close the weekend, so that what opened over three days has somewhere to land.
Saturday and Sunday mornings
MORNING MOVEMENT
An hour of movement to start each day before the training begins. It is optional, and most people come.
YOU DO NOT GO HOME ALONE
Here is the honest problem with weekends like this one. For most people the charge fades inside a week, and then you are back in the same conversations with the same people, holding an experience you cannot quite explain to them.
Skills fade without use. So your enrollment includes the five week Self-Study Program, and three months inside The Community.
Three months in The Community
- A live call every single week, with facilitators and other people doing the same practice
- Full access to The Community app, on your phone, wherever you are
- The room to bring it back to on the week it gets hard
The point is that you are still practicing this in January.
Claim One of the 20 Spaces
THE THREE TOOLSETS
Everything we teach is built on these three. Here is what each one is for.
THE GATEKEEPER GAMES
These practices are where you say the thing out loud to somebody who stays in the room, and most people find that what they have been protecting is smaller than the effort of hiding it.
It is also the fastest way we know to get a group of strangers to stop performing at each other.
THE SEVEN FUNDAMENTALS
Most fights are a disagreement about the story rather than about what happened. These are the talk skills that separate the two.
You practice asking for what you want without apologising for wanting it, refusing someone and staying close to them anyway, and listening completely enough that the other person can feel they were heard. They work on your partner, your mother, and your business partner.
THE FIVE FORMS
You can understand safety perfectly well and still not feel it. Talking gets you the insight. Contact is where it stops being theoretical.
These are the touch practices. Each one begins in a base posture and deepens only as far as you say yes. Most talk-based work never goes here, and most touch-based work never teaches the talking. We do both on purpose.
Every practice runs inside The Three Boundaries: time, talk, and touch. You choose your yes and your no in every single moment, and no explanation is ever required. You set the depth of every practice you take part in.
WHO IS HOLDING THE ROOM
Our facilitators lead by embodiment first. The room follows their presence.
RICKY GOODALL
Founder · Master Facilitator
Before founding Conscious Intimacy Games, Ricky Goodall competed professionally in MMA across Canada, building his life around fighting, discipline and survival. After years in the fight world a major personal transformation led him toward healing, emotional honesty and authentic connection. Today he helps people move beyond emotional armor into deeper, more meaningful relationships.
DAVID DIAMOND
Licensed Facilitator
A coach for people who know there is more available in life and want grounded, practical ways to access it. He draws on decades as a martial artist, kung fu instructor, personal trainer, massage therapist and somatic counselor.
APOLLO HALLEY
Facilitator
A queer, multiracial Performing Artist and Creative Wellness Facilitator, with credits including the West End, Star Trek and FIFA, turned somatic space holder and creator of the Wellness Oracle. People leave a room he has held feeling more connected to themselves and each other than when they walked in.
DONNA AMBER
Licensed Facilitator
A 500 hour Certified Yoga Instructor, Shamanic Breathwork Facilitator and Retreat Leader with over a decade guiding people through deep healing. She holds space for others to reclaim their voice and their power.
HARRY JUDGE
Facilitator
After twenty years as a professional actor and educator, Harry trained in breathwork and somatics, shamanism and embodiment, conscious relating and sacred sexuality. He works through the irreplaceable medicine of connection.
Conscious Intimacy Games has been running live events since 2022, across 14 cities in 4 countries. Between them, this team has held hundreds of rooms like this one.
Technique alone does not create a room where people tell the truth. How settled the facilitators are sets what is possible in it. Our job is to hold that steadily enough that you can borrow it until you can do it on your own.
CHOOSE YOUR WAY IN
Both include all three days of the training, the five week Self-Study Program, three months in The Community, and all three bonuses.
Twenty spaces only
Travel and accommodation are not included. Once you enroll we send the venue details and suggestions on where to stay nearby.
Questions before you book? Write to hello@consciousintimacygames.com
LET US BE HONEST ABOUT THE FIT
Twenty spaces means we would rather they go to the right twenty people.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
- You are tired of being understood and still not being known.
- There is a conversation you have been avoiding, and you already know which one.
- You want a relationship that does not run on management and performance.
- Conflict makes you go cold, go quiet, or go looking for the exit.
- You lead, coach, teach, or hold space, and you want to be able to hold a room this honest.
- You are willing to be uncomfortable for three days in order to change how you do this.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF
- You want to observe rather than take part.
- You want a workshop where you can stay in your head and take notes.
- You are looking for a hookup, which this is not.
- You want somebody else to do the work for you, which nobody can do.
- You are not willing to keep what happens in that room inside that room.
THE QUESTIONS EVERYBODY ASKS
Including the ones people usually only ask us privately.
I am not sure I am the kind of person who does this.
Is this a sexual event?
What happens if I freeze, or I want to stop?
I am in a relationship. Is this going to blow it up?
Do I need to bring a partner?
How many people will be there?
What is actually included in the price?
Where is it, and where do I stay?
The money is tight, or I have a question that is not here.
TWENTY SPACES, AND OCTOBER IS CLOSE
You have understood this for a long time. Understanding was never the part that was missing.
Come and get the reps.
Three days of training, plus three bonuses on top: the Voice Medicine Circle, the Shamanic Breathwork Ceremony, and movement on both mornings.
Tulum, Mexico · October 23 to 25, 2026
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