Conscious Intimacy Basic Training
Transform your life and relationships without waiting for the world to change first.
A five-week training camp in the Sacred Art of Conscious Intimacy.
What if the problem was never your relationships?
What if every argument, every heartbreak, every person who left was actually showing you something about yourself?
And what if the reason nothing has ever really changed is that you have been trying to fix the outside while the inside stays the same?
Most people spend their entire lives repeating the same relationship patterns. The same arguments. The same heartbreaks. The same kind of partner, the same kind of conflict, the same quiet disappointment, wondering why nothing ever really changes.
They assume the problem is out there. The wrong people. Bad timing. Everyone else.
But every relationship in your life has been showing you something about yourself. The unconscious beliefs, the stories, the emotional patterns you have been carrying since childhood are what is really running the show.
The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships. And every relationship you have is a reflection of the one you have with yourself.
Most of us were never taught how to actually be in relationship. We learned by watching the people around us, absorbing their defenses, their ways of getting love and avoiding pain, and then we carried those patterns straight into adulthood without ever knowing we were doing it.
Conscious Intimacy Basic Training interrupts that cycle.
Conscious Intimacy Games are sensual but not s*xual, intimate but not romantic.
They're safe enough to bring your mother to and can be made spicy enough to bring your lover to.
"This is not a course you sign up for and never finish.
It is a way of life."
We built this training like a fighter builds their body: through deliberate, structured repetition. Not more theory. Not more information you absorb and forget. Practice. Real practice, with real people, in real time.
At the foundation is a single belief: your life and relationships are a manifestation of the stories you tell yourself and the strategies you use to get what you want. Change the stories and strategies, and the life changes with them.
As within, so without.The work is deceptively simple. You deprogram the beliefs and survival patterns that have quietly run your relationships for decades, and you reprogram new ones that align with your true, authentic self. You practice living not as the character you built to survive, but as who you actually are underneath it.
Beneath the conditioning and the armor is a version of you that is naturally calm, courageous, compassionate, curious, and connected. Your true, authentic, Higher Self. That is who this training exists to bring forward, and put to work in your everyday life.
The training unfolds across five stages, each building on the last. It is designed to be completed in five weeks with two to three hours per week, roughly one of those hours spent with a Practice Partner playing that week's games. If life does not allow that pace, you can spread it across twelve weeks. Either way, the path is the same.
Five Stages. One You.
Awakening · The Spiritual Body
The first honest look at yourself, and the willingness to change.
Awareness · The Mental Body
Seeing the stories and beliefs that have been quietly running your life.
Acceptance · The Emotional Body
Feeling and releasing the pain stored beneath the stories.
Alignment · The Physical Body
Turning new insight into new habits, one real choice at a time.
Ascension · Consciousness
Living steady, present, and Self-led, even when old patterns surface.
What You Receive
The CIBT Playbook
Book One, The Sacred Art of Conscious Intimacy, is your map. Book Two, The Path of the Higher Self, is the territory: the full guided journey through all five stages.
25 Talk-Based Games
The heart of the training. Structured relationship exercises that deprogram old survival patterns and reprogram authentic ones, working at the level of the subconscious mind.
HATVI: The Five Pillars
Honesty, Authenticity, Transparency, Vulnerability, Integrity. A communication standard that, with practice, stops being a rule and becomes simply the way you speak.
Master Healer, Your AI Coach
Trained in Internal Family Systems, Somatic Experiencing, and high-performance coaching. Available any time, never judgmental, to go deeper between sessions.
The Community
Weekly live online practice calls every Monday, a place to find a Practice Partner, and people at every stage of the path walking it right alongside you.
A Practice Partner Invitation
Bring someone through the entire program with you at no cost, so you never have to walk the path alone.
By the time you complete Conscious Intimacy Basic Training, the shift shows up in the way you speak, the way you listen, and the way you love.
This is not a technique you apply occasionally. It is a way of living, recreating your life from the inside out.
Don't wait for the world to change first.
Change it from the inside out.
Real change asks something real of you. Go at your own pace. Trust the process. Trust yourself.
Enroll in CIBT